Rethinking about PBBM

Unexpected Twists: Reexamining Bongbong Marcos in an Evolving Political Scenario

Three years prior, talking positively about President Ferdinand "Bongbong" Marcos Jr. would have seemed unthinkable. His last name is synonymous with one of the darkest moments in Philippine history—martial law, dictatorship, and plunder for many. But politics, as life, is not often black and white. And recently, Bongbong Marcos has been doing something nobody anticipated—steering away from the inheritance that propelled him to power and forging a new path that, though flawed, indicates a different trajectory.

The Son, Not the Father

Regardless of how much one dislikes his pedigree, it is instructive to observe a deep truth: people are not their parents. A verse from Ezekiel 18:20 is a timeless reminder: "The son shall not bear the iniquity of the father." History will judge the father. But the son? The son must be held accountable for his own deeds.

That change of heart has become particularly significant now that the new administration is starting to exhibit signs of reform, pragmatism, and—even more astoundingly—principled leadership.

From Symbolism to Substance

Unlike the strongman populism of the last few years, Marcos Jr. has made decisions that subtly but meaningfully depart from his father's shadow of authoritarianism and his predecessor's blood-stained playbook.

Let's consider what's been transpiring:

✅ Professional, non-partisan hires for high-level positions like PNP Chief Gen. Nicholas Torre, a reform symbol in a historically militarized organization.

✅ Putting an end to the phony drug war: No more extrajudicial "tokhang" murders. The President has set aside Duterte's deadly record in favor of due process and human rights.

✅ Stopping wasteful expenditures, including rejecting billions in questionable "confidential funds" that are linked to the Vice President.

✅ Defending Philippine sovereignty over the West Philippine Sea by reclaiming the 2016 UN arbitral win, a foreign policy position long neglected or bargained away.

✅ Shunning Beijing's influence, including reversing the enigmatic "Gentleman's Agreement" supposedly created under Duterte's regime.

✅ Reinvigorating friendships with the West, and not as an act of submission, but as a diplomatic realignment.

✅ Ordering the pursuit of justice against criminal religious cult leader Apollo Quiboloy, who for years walked with impunity.

✅ Demonstrating political will by standing up against the Duterte faction, keeping them in check for abuses previously thought unassailable.

These are not symbolic acts. These are indicative of a measured, de-Marcosian method to leadership—a move no one was really anticipating.

When the Opposition Joins the Table

The political aftershocks of Senators Bam Aquino and Kiko Pangilinan joining the Senate majority raised more eyebrows than cheers. To many from the liberal-progressive clan, it was betrayal. But is it?

If their membership in the Education and Agriculture committees translates to real, tangible improvements, then perhaps it's not a loss—but a calculated comeback. Even Senator Risa Hontiveros, who campaigned for their return, hasn't sounded the alarm.

Reformers sometimes have to work through the system to transform it. And maybe Marcos Jr., unexpectedly, is keeping the possibility of such an alliance open.

It's Not Love—It's Clarity

Let's be clear: this isn't a glowing review of Bongbong Marcos as a visionary. It's not about erasing the past. It's about facing current realities. He's not perfect—but he's not Duterte. And he's definitely not his father.

There’s power in saying: “I’ve changed my mind because I’ve seen evidence.” And that’s what this is. A personal evolution born from observing a different kind of leadership than what was expected.

And if that opinion alienates others? So be it.

No Apologies for Seeing Change

This blog does not exist to parrot echo chambers or gratify tribal allegiances. It exists in order to question, judge, and think critically—even if that means diverging from ideological purists or the perpetually outraged.

If you've read this far and feel driven to unfollow, unsubscribe, or cancel—go for it. This place isn't for outrage-as-performance. It's for painful truths, considered nuance, and yes, hope that even in politics, people can surprise us.

Because if we can't accommodate growth—not only in leaders, but in ourselves—then we've learned nothing at all.

Let's continue to watch. Let's continue to question. Let's continue to hold them accountable. But let's not be so blinded by the past that we cannot observe history-in-the-making.

Lawsuit? Here's how to respond

How to Respond to Threats of Continuing Lawsuit

Being threatened with a lawsuit can be frightening and worrisome in any case-be it personal or professional. If someone is threatening a suit to you repeatedly, then it's very important for you to keep yourself calm and think of a strategy with which you will take all the threats calmly. Whether the threats are baseless or true, how to respond is really crucial in relation to protecting your interests and keeping yourself peaceful as well. Here's the comprehensive guide on how to behave in front of someone who continues threatening a lawsuit.

1. Stay Calm and Alert

Your immediate instinct might be the emotional reaction when confronted by threats of litigation. Compose yourself, however. Emotional reactions will heighten the situation and may even be used against you should the matter go legal. Calm down, step back, and objectively view the situation. Being composed will also give you more control over the conversation and allow you to demonstrate that you are not intimidated.

2. Record Everything

Document all communications when a threat for legal action occurs. Save e-mails, text messages, or any other written correspondence. If it happens over the phone or person-to-person, take copious notes of what was said, who said it, and when it happened. Keeping records of such will help in the development of a clear timeline and context if things escalate.

3. Listen Without Replying

Recognize that you may want to feel defensive or fearful, but listen for what the other person is saying without interrupting or responding in a negative manner. Doing so not only enhances the process of getting information but will also demonstrate to people that you are serious in taking their concerns. Many times, listening to people's views can diffuse the situation and lead to an open way of resolution.

4. Do Not Admit Guilt

Never apologize for anything when the lawsuit threats come out. Some persons say ridiculous things like "I am sorry you feel that way," or "I did not know that's what happened," which could be a statement about which a court and jury would find them in a mistaken admission.

5. Be Professional

If the person intending to sue sends you notice of intention in writing, be professional with him or her. Brief, courteous is your language and not a single tone of emotion. Be clear that you should not engage in debates or even to argue your version with them. This would only inflame heated rhetoric.

Example response: "Thank you for raising this to my attention. I shall assure proper review of the issue keeping in mind all your concerns. Please be assured that I'll see the thing through accordingly after discussing it with concerned parties."

6. Consult Lawyers

If the threats persist or escalates, it would be prudent to seek counsel from a lawyer. The lawyer can review the facts and apprise you of the law applicable to your situation. They may advise you based on knowledge of your rights, evaluate the merits of the threats against you, and direct the course of action that you should take next. You want to consult an attorney for an additional reason: any subsequent reactions or actions that you will undertake should first be preceded by advice given by a licensed attorney.

7. Determine the Seriousness of the Threat

Not every threat of a lawsuit is valid. While some may actually have the potential for getting a lawyer to sue, others simply use these threats to intimidate or pressure you to do something. An attorney who knows his stuff can better help you figure out the legitimacy of the threats so that you can decide what's appropriate to do next.

8. Provide a Way Out

If it can and should be settled out of court, agree to amicably settle the dispute. This can be through proposing a meeting with a view of attempting to solve the problem or offering mediation. An amicable settlement saves both parties time, stress, and cost. The maturity displayed by willingness to understand each other's positions makes the plaintiff abandon his suit altogether.

9. Know Your Rights

It's always important to know your rights if you suspect a lawsuit will come your way. Due to the differences in laws in each region, what may be valid in one area may not be in another. If it's a breach of contract, defamation, or any of these legal matters that are posing a problem for you, knowledge is power that will make you empowered to make smart decisions.

10. Be Prepared for the Worst Case

Most of the threats never result in actual lawsuits, but one always wants to be ready for just such an event. You would want to discuss strategy with your attorney and assemble all supporting documentation for your defense. Preparation will mean you are not caught flatfooted if the matter carries out.

Operating with Persistent Threats

This may mean you must keep professional boundaries in place, especially if they continue to threaten litigation over time and your efforts to solve the matter do not dissuade them. You will likely want to limit contact or seek a mediator who can help iron things out. And when they move into outright harassment and abuse, the appropriateness of seeking protections afforded by law - perhaps in the form of a cease-and-desist letter - becomes quite clear.

Conclusion

A threat of litigation is something no one looks forward to; however, with thoughtful responses and proper counseling, you're going to successfully come out of it. Remember to stay calm, create documentation records, avoid unnecessary admissions, and consult the legal services when required. The approach makes things easier for you so that you can confidently handle the situation and prevent it from interrupting your life or career.

The only way to approach this is to be patient, vigilant, and professional. Lawsuits are quite serious, but to be prepared and educated would have you ready for anything that may come your way.

A letter to myself #DearSelf

Just a letter to myself...

It's time to prepare yourself in any circumstances. Be productive as you can be. Do the best for tasks given to you. Always strive for perfection. Involve yourself to people, be human and responsible.

Procrastination is okay but remember it has limit. Be friendly to people around you, around the social networks and around the world. Assist strangers with a smile. Carry on the truth you have learned. Remember, always do the best.

Go out of comfort zone and be challenged mentally, physically and spiritually. Knock doors when in need. Do homework, know your facts, and remember the passion that persuades.

Make allowances for your friend's imperfections as readily as you do for your own. Always look for new best friends.

Pay bills on time, pay tax, avoid credits. Be thrifty. Remember, wealth is health, too.

Above all things, pray.