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Sunday, February 22, 2026

Loud phones in public

Do Loudspeakers Prove Anything? The Culture of Noise in Public Spaces


We’ve all experienced it: riding a bus or sitting in a jeepney, when suddenly someone decides the entire vehicle needs to hear their music or watch their TikTok videos at full volume. No earphones, no consideration—just raw sound blasting through a phone speaker like the rest of us are background extras in their personal music video.

It begs the question: what exactly are they trying to prove?

Noise as a Misplaced Badge of Confidence


For some, loud music in public is a way of saying, “Look at me! I’m here! I matter!” It’s a substitute for presence, a kind of noisy self-assertion. The irony? Instead of respect, it usually breeds irritation.

Much like corruption in government or vote-buying during elections, loudspeaker behavior is a symptom of something deeper: a system of tolerance for inconsiderate actions. Because people rarely get called out, the bad habit thrives.

The Illusion of Power Through Volume

Blasting music in a confined space doesn’t make one powerful or cool. It makes one inconsiderate. True confidence doesn’t need to intrude on others’ peace.

And if we look closer, this mirrors larger cultural problems in the Philippines:
  • Politicians amplify slogans but not solutions.
  • Officials make noise during campaigns, then go silent on accountability.
  • Citizens, frustrated with systemic issues, sometimes channel the same “noise first” attitude in daily life.
Noise becomes a metaphor for pretending to matter without truly contributing value.

Respect is the Real Flex


Just like how good governance requires systems that reward accountability, good public behavior requires social norms that reward respect.

Wearing earphones instead of blasting speakers is not just about courtesy—it’s about recognizing that your freedom ends where another person’s begins.

In the same way, our politics and economy need boundaries that prevent the powerful from trampling over ordinary people.

When we normalize inconsiderate behavior, whether in buses or in politics, we allow “noise” to replace genuine progress.

Reform Starts with Small Things


If we want systemic reform in governance, we should also start demanding reform in everyday behavior. That means:
  • Speaking up when noise intrudes on public spaces.
  • Modeling respect instead of tolerating selfishness.
  • Understanding that “pakisama” doesn’t mean silence in the face of inconsiderate acts.
Because when we let the small forms of disrespect slide, it’s easier to let the bigger ones pass too.

Final Word


So the next time someone blasts their phone speaker on the bus, ask yourself: Is this confidence, or just noise?

In life and in politics, it’s the same lesson: volume is not value. Respect, accountability, and consideration are.

Real maturity is not about how loud you can be—it’s about how much peace you allow others to have.

Sunday, February 15, 2026

Why outside Metro Manila cities are left behind

The disparity between Metro Manila and other cities in the Philippines is a complex, multifaceted issue rooted in economic, institutional, infrastructural, governance, and social factors. Below, I detail the principal reasons—supported by a broad base of scholarly work—why cities outside Metro Manila have been left behind, referencing a wide array of independent academic sources.

1. Centralized Economic Growth and Agglomeration Effects


Metro Manila acts as the country’s main economic, service, and production hub, drawing substantial investment, talent, and infrastructure development. This concentration delivers agglomeration economies, such as improved productivity and opportunities, but also leads to neglect elsewhere as investments and people gravitate towards the capital, draining secondary cities of resources and workforce. The Philippines’ urban system is thus highly centralized, resulting in persistent inefficiencies and high transaction costs in other cities. Similar patterns are observed elsewhere, where uneven spatial development stems from density-driven agglomeration and resulting regional polarization. Economic geography literature emphasizes that such imbalances naturally arise without intentional policies to promote convergence.

2. Infrastructure and Service Deficits


Large disparities in infrastructure provision exist. While Metro Manila benefits from more robust transportation, communication, and utilities, cities outside are often plagued with inefficient, outdated, or insufficient infrastructure. Problems extend from water supply and waste management to digital connectivity, making smaller cities less competitive and less attractive to businesses and skilled workers. This lack of infrastructure is both a cause and consequence of inadequate investment, reinforcing the centrality of Metro Manila.

3. Weak Governance, Decentralization, and Resource Constraints


Governance capacity in many cities outside Metro Manila is frequently weaker, exacerbated by the devolution of responsibilities without corresponding fiscal and institutional support. Local governments have limited capacity to attract, retain, and fairly compensate essential professionals (e.g., in health, education, planning), creating persistent service shortfalls. Fiscal transfers from the national government are constrained by formulas tied to population, land area, and equal sharing, which disadvantage less populous or rapidly depopulating localities.

4. Private Sector Dynamics and Oligarchic Urbanism


Development patterns in the Philippines are shaped significantly by influential real estate and infrastructure conglomerates, often operating in closer alignment with Manila-based interests. This power concentration limits the scope and depth of planned urban expansion or modernization in peripheral and secondary cities, leaving them reliant on less dynamic public-private investment.

5. Human Capital Flight and Settlement Patterns


Many cities outside Metro Manila contend with outmigration of talent; skilled workers relocate to the capital or abroad in search of higher incomes or professional opportunities. The resulting “brain drain” decreases the capacity of outside cities to innovate, develop, and respond effectively to local challenges. Predictive modeling shows that economic activity, job creation, and infrastructure historically dictate urban growth—cities failing to attract sufficient investment and activity stagnate.

6. Policy Inefficacy and Institutional Constraints


While reforms and decentralization were intended to create responsive urban governance, in practice, policy effectiveness has remained limited by institutional inertia and lack of holistic frameworks that simultaneously address competitiveness, poverty, infrastructure, and governance. International studies of regional policy confirm that weak local institutions stunt growth and that efforts to boost lagging areas require robust, targeted, and context-sensitive approaches.

7. Urban Planning and Environmental Pressures


Poor coordination between national and local agencies, along with inconsistent urban planning, means that development outside Manila often lacks coherence, leading to urban sprawl, pollution, and increased vulnerability to environmental shocks. The challenges of managing tertiary or smaller cities’ urban environments are substantial due to resource and coordination deficits.

8. Health, Education, and Social Services Gaps


The provision of critical services—health, education, utilities—remains uneven. Local resource limitations hinder the ability of municipalities outside Metro Manila to deliver or maintain quality services, such as adequate health worker deployment, public health programs, and education, which in turn impedes broader social and economic development.

9. Global and Historical Context


The Philippine situation is mirrored globally: in both developing and developed countries, major economic hubs (urban primacy) tend to attract disproportionate investment and talent, leaving peripheral cities with fewer opportunities.

Final Word

In summary, the lag of cities outside Metro Manila is driven by systematic concentration of capital, services, governance, and talent in the capital region, alongside institutional weaknesses and underinvestment in infrastructure, social services, and governance capacity elsewhere. Strategic, decentralized, and context-sensitive interventions are needed to create multiple growth centers, strengthen local institutions, and address both economic and social disparities.

Sunday, February 08, 2026

The Freedom of Not Being Liked

Stop Worrying If People Like You. They Don’t.


Let’s face it: not everyone will like you. In fact, some people won’t even bother to know you before they decide they don’t. And that’s okay.

We live in a culture that feeds on approval, likes, followers, applause, validation. From school to the workplace to social media, we’re conditioned to crave acceptance. But here’s the truth bomb: spending your life trying to make everyone like you is the fastest road to disappointment.

Why People Won’t Always Like You

Personal Biases – People project their own insecurities, experiences, and prejudices onto others. Sometimes, their dislike has nothing to do with you.
Different Values – You can’t align with everyone. What you stand for may clash with what they believe.
Envy and Competition – Some people won’t like you simply because you remind them of what they lack.
Human Nature – We’re wired to form tribes. Some will see you as “other,” no matter what you do.

The Cost of Chasing Approval


When you live to be liked, you live a borrowed life. You compromise your values, mute your voice, and shape yourself into something you’re not, all to gain applause that’s fleeting at best. Studies show that people-pleasers suffer higher levels of anxiety, stress, and burnout (APA, 2019).

And here’s the kicker: even if you succeed in winning approval, the moment you slip, that approval vanishes. It was never yours to begin with, it was conditional.

The Freedom of Not Caring


When you stop worrying about whether people like you, you gain something priceless: freedom.
Freedom to live by your own values.
Freedom to pursue your passions unapologetically.
Freedom to attract people who appreciate you for who you truly are, not the mask you wear.

As Dr. Seuss once said, “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”

Redirect Your Energy


Instead of wasting energy convincing the world to like you, redirect it to:
Self-respect. The one person whose opinion truly matters is you.
Real connections. Invest in people who already see your worth.
Growth. Improve yourself for your own fulfillment, not to impress others.

Final Word


Stop worrying if people like you. They don’t—and even if they did, it’s not your job to live up to their expectations.

It’s your job to live fully, authentically, and courageously.
Because in the end, it’s not about how many people liked you, it’s about whether you liked the person you became.

Sunday, February 01, 2026

Fast love

Love Beyond the Butterflies: Why You Shouldn't Fall in Love Too Fast

It's all too easy to fall for someone when they're dressed to impress, talking sweetly, and playing the laugh-factor under the hot glow of new romance. When that's going on, love really does seem like magic. But the real test of any relationship isn't in the good times—it's in the storms.

Why Falling Too Fast Can Be Risky


Early in love, emotions are intensified. Psychologists refer to it as the "honeymoon phase." You view the other person with rose-tinted glasses, and then pretend that there are no flaws or red flags. That kind of love isn't sustainable. Life catches up eventually—bills come due, work gets hectic, issues arise. That's when the mask is removed, and you get to see who they actually are.
  • How do they treat you when they're exhausted?
  • Do they still revere you when they're under stress?
  • Can they be honest with you when they're broke or in financial struggles?
  • Are they patient and gentle when they're starving or frustrated?
These are the actual moments that show character.

The Right Person Makes Hard Times Easier

Real love isn't about not facing challenges; it's about how you encounter them with each other. The right person won't erase your issues, but they'll make the burden feel less heavy. They'll make you realize you're not by yourself, that even on the worst days there's a sanctuary in each other.

The wrong individual, however, will increase your load. They'll blame, withdraw, or put you down. That's why it's risky to get married too fast without actually knowing how someone reacts to life's inevitable difficulties.

Signs You're with the Right Person

  • They remain calm and encouraging when issues come up.
  • They talk openly rather than closing down.
  • They are respectful even during anger or exhaustion.
  • They struggle alongside you to resolve issues rather than letting you fend for yourself.
  • These are the characteristics that keep a relationship going past the butterflies.
  • Love That Lasts Requires Time
Falling in love too quickly may be exciting, but developing love that endures takes time. Take the time to really get to know someone, not simply during the highlight reel moments, but during the raw, unfiltered ones.

Because at the end of the day, true love isn't about who gets your heart racing—it's about who is there for you when the world gets too much.

Last Thought

Don't force love. Allow it to come naturally. The right person won't only love you in your best time; they'll stick around, hold you up, and love you through the storms.

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