100 things that I don't know that I should miss in my life
A curated list of 100 things I may not know that I should experience or not miss in life, in no particular order of importance, but arranged to inspire myself, and so are you:
- Visit a remote Philippine island with no signal.
- Watch a play at the Cultural Center of the Philippines.
- Walk alone in a foreign country where you don’t speak the language.
- Spend a night in an ancestral house in Vigan.
- Tour a Spanish-era church and ask the priest about its history.
- Get lost in Intramuros with no map.
- See the Northern Lights at least once.
- Visit a UNESCO heritage site outside the Philippines.
- Go on a solo road trip across Luzon.
- Ride a slow train through the countryside.
Creative and artistic moments
- Join an improv class (yes, even as an actor).
- Write and direct a short film—even on your phone.
- Paint something abstract and hang it in your home.
- Watch a silent film in an old theater.
- Memorize and perform a monologue by heart—just for yourself.
- Record your own voice reading poetry and play it back.
- Attend a backstage rehearsal of a major play.
- Make a documentary about your neighborhood.
- Collaborate with a visual artist.
- Try stage managing a small production.
Human encounters you won’t forget
- Listen to a stranger’s life story in a cafĂ©.
- Interview a World War II survivor.
- Have a heart-to-heart with your oldest living relative.
- Sit beside a child and ask them about their dreams.
- Volunteer for a cause that makes you cry.
- Talk to a street vendor about their day.
- Reconnect with someone from your past—even if awkward.
- Hug a person who really needs it.
- Say sorry to someone you hurt.
- Say “I forgive you” even if they don’t apologize.
Soulful and inner work
- Take a vow of silence for one day.
- Spend one weekend offline.
- Write a letter to your future self.
- Meditate during sunrise in nature.
- Watch the stars with zero distractions.
- Let go of something painful—and release it with ritual.
- Read a sacred text from a different religion.
- Go on a retreat with no phones, no goals—just reflection.
- Keep a dream journal for a month.
- Light a candle for someone you lost.
Nature encounters to remember
- Hike a mountain before dawn.
- Swim under a waterfall in Sagada or Aurora.
- Plant a tree and name it.
- Sleep under the stars without a tent.
- Observe birds in their natural habitat.
- Feed animals in a wildlife sanctuary.
- Surf even if you’re scared.
- See fireflies in Palawan or Donsol.
- Trek to an old crater lake.
- Experience the sea during a full moon.
Lifelong learning
- Learn to write with your non-dominant hand.
- Read a book from a banned list.
- Learn how to say “thank you” in 20 languages.
- Take an online course on something obscure (like Norse mythology).
- Study your own family genealogy.
- Watch a foreign film without subtitles.
- Learn sign language basics.
- Memorize one famous speech (try Martin Luther King or Jose Rizal).
- Learn how to read your birth chart.
- Try solving a Rubik’s cube.
Professional lessons that matter
- Say no to a high-paying opportunity that doesn’t align with your values.
- Mentor someone younger than you.
- Pitch an idea that scares you.
- Get rejected and bounce back stronger.
- Be on stage or camera with no script.
- Negotiate your worth without guilt.
- Work with people who challenge your perspective.
- Present something live to a skeptical audience.
- Learn to say “I don’t know” confidently.
- Build a passion project that pays nothing—at first.
Simple joys and guilty pleasures
- Eat street food in a hidden alley.
- Cook your childhood favorite dish for friends.
- Drink halo-halo during a storm.
- Dance in the rain in your neighborhood.
- Watch a sappy teleserye and cry.
- Ride a tricycle at midnight while singing karaoke.
- Laugh until your stomach hurts with old friends.
- Eat alone in a fancy restaurant.
- Wear your fanciest clothes on an ordinary day.
- Watch your favorite movie three times in a row.
Financial and Legacy Thinking
- Save for something that inspires you, not just what you need.
- Set up a fund for someone else’s education.
- Create a will—even just a simple one.
- Buy land or a space that’s meaningful, not just profitable.
- Donate anonymously.
- Spend for an experience rather than a gadget.
- Learn how to do taxes by yourself (once).
- Write your “financial regrets” and learn from them.
- Build passive income—even if small.
- Gift a book that changed your life.
Legacy, Purpose, and the Long Game
- Speak at a school where you once studied.
- Write your personal manifesto and share it.
- Record a message to your future grandkids.
- Leave a thank-you note to your mentors.
- Help a stranger reach their dream.
- Plant something meaningful on your birthday.
- Build or help build a physical thing that outlasts you (a mural, tree, school desk).
- Tell your life story—even if you think it’s “ordinary.”
- Apologize to your younger self.
- Let your heart break wide open and still choose to love again.
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